CHAPTER 1
What it is, Why it is and How to Spot it.

CHAPTER 2
Images of Psychiatry

CHAPTER 3
Psychiatrists are Doctors too

CHAPTER 4
Whose Couch is it Anyway?!

CHAPTER 5
Pine, Honeysuckles and Water Violets

CHAPTER 6
“…and the Kneebone’s Connected to the Thighbone”

CHAPTER 7
The Forgotten Link

CHAPTER 8
Cry Baby Cry

CHAPTER 9
Husbands Matter Too

CHAPTER 10
More that Just a Phase

CHAPTER 11
Why wouldn’t I be depressed?

CHAPTER 12
A Family Affair

CHAPTER 13
When I’m sixty-four

CHAPTER 14
You've got a friend

 

 

 
 


More that Just a Phase

Something that often bewilders parents of teenagers is how to make the differentiation between ‘a phase they're going through’, ‘it's in fashion;, ‘all their friends are doing it’ or something more. Their clothes are black, their music sounds black, and every time you won't let them use the car, their mood turns black.



So how is it possible to detect depression in your teenager, when so much of the behaviour looks like ordinary teenage sloth-like behaviour? Are they sleeping a lot because they talk all night on the phone and are in the middle of another growth spurt, or is it a symptom of depression?

The following is the symptom checklist we referred to in Chapter One, modified to incorporate adolescent idiosyncrasies. Remember; If at least four of the following symptoms have been present nearly every day for a period of two weeks or more, you need a professional opinion.

1) Changes in weight or appetite

2) Constantly complaining of being bored, hating school

3) Feelings of sadness

4) Thoughts of death or suicide

5) Feeling guilty, hopeless or worthless

6) Changes in sleeping pattern

7) Inability to concentrate, remember things, or make decisions

8) Fatigue or loss of energy

9) Loss of interest in the opposite sex.

This chapter also outlines types of help available. Practical things the family can do as well as stories from families that have struggled with depressed teenagers and how they coped.